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Zimbabwe: HIV-model says media has destroyed her soul

Author: WTR Editors Date Published: 2017-08-16 15:36:56
  • Zimbabwe: HIV-model says media has destroyed her soul

    Zimbabwe´s high profile model-turned AIDS activist Ms.Tendayi Westerhof-Katekedza said 16 years ago she lost everything after she came out publicly about her HIV status and the media ganging up against her.

    Tendayi was married to Mr. Clemence Westerhof, an illustrious coach who has found success by winning the 1994 African Cup of Nations as well as taking Nigeria´s football team to the second round of the 1994 World Cup before he took his managerial talents to Zimbabwe. In 2002 the couple divorced when she disclosed that she was HIV positive and blamed her husband for infecting her. Her husband had denied the allegations.

    Ms. Westerhof was to later form the Zimbabwe Public Personalities against Aids Trust (PPAAT). This, according to her, was meant to encourage other public figures to come out in the open about their HIV status.

    The vocal Aids activist said she still believes that some journalists were paid to write negative things about her because she had touched a high profile man (Clemence Westerhof the Dutch soccer coach).

    “And we know there is what is called pocket journalism, which happens and we have seen it on TV and even journalists talking about that,” said Tendayi.

    “Sometimes journalists were paid to write and damage me.”

    She added, “Because I had touched where it hurts most, disclosing my status and it was very direct, and how I thought I contracted HIV, and the whole picture of it I had put it in the public arena.”

    Tendayi said the same journalists who had called her a “gold digger” when she married the Zimbabwe Soccer Team coach were to again attack her for coming out in open about her HIV status.“Had it been him (Clemence) coming out in the open about his status the media was still going to blame it on me,” she said. 

    “And this was like a fight between men and women as I was now speaking on behalf of other women.”

    She added, “I was the voice in the wilderness and this had touched on a lot of people, not just my marriage or me Tendayi the person, but whoever was involved.”

    Tendayi’s husband had coached a litany of posh teams from the Dutch league to  Super Eagles of Nigeria (the continent´s most successful national football team) and later took a position at Dynamos, Zimbabwe´s biggest and oldest club.

    She has now published books to tell her real life story, the first one titled ‘Unlucky in Love’.

    “I have four children with 3 different men and no one ever bothered to ask me why, but all I can say is the story is in my first book,” she said.

    “Unlucky in Love has a story of my living testimony, and talks about my love life, HIV disclosure and what I went through.”

    She added, “The book talks about how I lived a double life, how I suffered emotionally and mentally as I thought this was the end of the world for me.”

    On her second book ‘Dear Cousin’, Tendayi said, “This book is full of advice to anyone who is HIV positive or negative, as HIV knows no boundary.”

    “Anyone rich or poor can be infected or affected.”

    Tendayi said she was the country’s coordinator for the Pan-African Positive Woman’s Coalition and this has given her a chance to travel around the country and the world to summits and workshops to deliver her testimonies.

    She is currently writing her third book which she says "will be published soon."

    (Picture caption: Tendayi Westerhof speaks at a public workshop)

    (Picture credit: WTR editors)

     

     

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